How to Know If You Have a Chance

If you happen to have an abnormally large ego and believe that anything you desire should and will be yours, you probably share these same attitudes in your view towards men. I know that I often believe that if I really want something or someone, I will definitely be able to obtain it. Although this may be true for the most part, there are certain situations that you CANNOT win. It’s best for you to know now before you put out your best efforts then lose the battle. When you are not able to woo you desired interest under these circumstances you cannot take it personally. So don’t let your ego get bruised and realize that the matter is completely situational.

Below are the two situations in which you can’t compete for a guy in because unfortunately, you will not win.

1.) Time
Even If you are gorgeous, have the best personality ever and share all the same interests as this guy, if he knew a girl before you it’s hard to compete with that. It’s hard to compete when the other girl has time on her side. She has had more time to get to know him and he has had more time to learn about her and like her.

2.) Type

You can’t win a guy over if you are simply not his type. If a guy just doesn’t like a girly girl, than I’m screwed and just have to accept my defeat and move on to the next one. If you have a type, you are well aware that it is hard to imagine yourself with someone who does not fit it. And you don’t want to be with someone who isn’t attracted to you anyway.

So keep these tips in mind for your future conquests and don’t get too offended when you can’t win the guy over. We can’t win everything so just keep it pushing and find someone who is actually interested in you!