It's happens to all of us once or twice, we see a guy and immediately fall in lust with him. Every time you see him you get butterflies in your stomach and get a warm fuzzy feeling. The emotions you are experiencing are referred to as a "crush". It will slam you in the back of your head with full force before you even realize what happened to you! People may think that having a crush is easy but in fact it is hard work, below please find steps to activate your crush.
1.) Meet the attractive object of your affection.
2.) Have a conversation with him that last at most five minutes.
In this five minute conversation you must believe that you have learned everything about him that there is to know. You must think that you are really in tuned with him and truly understand his beliefs and struggles in life.
3.) Daydream about him all day and make up amazing scenarios in your head of the two of you spending time together.
ex: Holding hands strolling the beach on a warm summer day
ex: Running through a field of flowers together
ex: Sipping wine while you two gallivant through a vineyard.
*It is very important that in your daydreams you create a very clear image of how great and magical this guy is. Maybe he rescues puppies on the weekends for fun or reads to the elderly to boost their morale.
4.) After months of being in your fake relationship, run into him again and watch him prove to you that he is nothing like what you dreamed of.
Once he has affirmed that he has absolutely no interest in you, your crush has become fully activated. After all, there is nothing more romantic than unrequited love!
This is so true. I did this to a guy I work with and he turned out to be so boring. Crushes are better than the real thing.
ReplyDeleteIf only they could be as great as they seem in our heads!
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